He will give you the desires of your heart


Have you ever heard a verse and it was as if you heard it for the first time? We have been studying 1 John in our Bible Fellowship class on Sunday.  This week as we finished up the book, our speaker dove into verses 14-21 and the verses that really stuck out to me were
14 And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us. 15 And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him. (ESV)
I love the Amplified version: 14 This is the [remarkable degree of] confidence which we [as believers are entitled to] have before Him: that [a]if we ask anything according to His will, [that is, consistent with His plan and purpose] He hears us. 15 And if we know [for a fact, as indeed we do] that He hears and listens to us in whatever we ask, we [also] know [with settled and absolute knowledge] that we have [granted to us] the requests which we have asked from Him.
Wow! The same God who created the heavens and the earth will hear our prayers because of our relationship with Christ Jesus. We have confidence in this!
The verse that was mentioned in class in alignment with this passage was
Psalm 37:4 
Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
This verse is often misused to portray God as a spiritual vending machine. What many people miss or intentionally omit is that He will give us the desires of our hearts as long as our hearts are in alignment with His will. Sounds simple right? So why is this verse resonating deep in my soul?

How do we ensure our desires are in alignment with His will?

Daily Quiet Time

As a semi-new mom, quiet time is something that is a distant memory. I have resorted to prayer time before bed. Some evenings it is 5 minutes and others it is longer. We have found time for every other distraction in our lives and God has taken the back seat when He should be our first priority. We can replace nap-time laundry sessions with time in the Word. The laundry will still be there when we are finished. The hours (minutes) are there; we simply have to prioritize. Your spirit will thank you! A wise sister in Christ once said, give your time to the Lord and He will restore it back to you. Start today!

Live Like Christ

If we are walking in alignment with His word and keeping our eyes on Him, we are in alignment with His will. His desires will become our desires. If you are wearing white, you are very careful not to spill anything on your clothes. If we are living in alignment with Christ, we make an effort not to taint our lives with the things that are contrary to His holiness. Not to say we won’t ever sin, but we are more cognizant of our actions. We don’t want to sin against Him.

Be Quick to Ask Forgiveness 

Sin is inevitable. So is forgiveness if we have a relationship with Jesus. The best way to stay in line with God’s desires is to ask for forgiveness when we sin against Him. Paul wrote in his letter to the Ephesians, “In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace…”
Don’t let sin fester in your life; REPENT and be forgiven! You cannot have an intimate relationship with God if you are walking in sin. 

For God so loved the world that He sent His one and only son. That whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. (John 3:16)
He loves us so much that He only wants the best for our lives. Dive into His word and let His truths surround you. His desires for us are more than we can even think or imagine! (Eph. 3:20-21).



I was driving home today and saw a slogan on a company van that said, “Use a filter or be a filter.” This particular slogan was trying to sell water filtration systems but the message could apply to our spiritual walk as well. The word of God acts like a filter for our hearts. Psalm 51:10 says “Create in me a clean heart O God and renew a right spirit in me.” Malachi 3:3 says that “He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver.”
The more time we spend in the Word of God, the more the Word will penetrate our lives and filter out the negative. There is no hiding it; when I am not spending time in the Word, my thoughts are different and my reactions are different. I rely more on myself than the truth in His Word which rarely has a positive outcome.

When we are intentional with our time and about the information we allow to be filtered through through our mind, heart and spirit the positive changes will follow. 

Moving Forward With Hope; Looking Back in Praise


I have seen several Facebook posts about how terrible 2017 has been. For those of you who suffered loss and heartache this year, I pray that 2018 brings joy, peace and blessings abound!
I am looking back on 2017 with smiles and tears. This has been both the best and most challenging year of my life mentally.

I have had the privilege of watching my baby girl grow into an amazing little person whom I cannot wait to watch continue to grow! Her love for life is infectious!
The Lord opened the door for me to stay at home with her while still working part-time. It took me several months to adjust mentally to not being a major contributor to our finances but as always, the Lord provided. He has shown me that for now, my contribution as a mom is infinitely more important than my paycheck. This has also taught me what it means to be biblically submissive to my husband. This was not something I had ever learned since I was financially self-sufficient for the first 5 years of our marriage. I am a work in progress in that area!
My husband and I had some serious challenges this year and the Lord used unconventional ways to drag us in His direction. Thankfully, that direction led us to our Bible Fellowship group which has been a huge blessing. Not only have we made some great friends, we spent the entire year on a marriage lesson which helped us grow personally and as a couple. I was able to attend our ladies retreat where I had some time to fellowship and commune with the Lord.
I am looking back on this year with awe and wonder at the ways the Lord has refined me and hopeful that He will continue to bring me closer to Him in 2018! As we usher in this new year full of potential, take some time to look back and I bet you will find some amazing blessings God gave you! At the very least, the challenges are awesome learning tools.


The Most Unlikely Places

24493-proverbs-3-5-6-niv-woman-bike-800x600I recently sold a few items on a local Facebook page. I love these websites because it’s a safe way to unload things for which you no longer have a use but could be of use to someone else. Both of these items sold relatively fast! I mailed one the items and the other I met the woman at a store. As I spoke to each of the women throughout the transactions, the Lord was able to reveal things to me about their lives. One of the women has a daughter undergoing testing for seizures so I was able to pray for her. The other woman is a former member of our church and knows a close friend. She is a foster/adopted mom of 16 children. WOW!

I would have more than likely never met either one of these women in any other forum. The Lord beautifully orchestrated each of these encounters so that I would be able to not only sell my items and make some much needed cash, but also learn a bit about two people who have different needs. My prayer for you tonight is that these special encounters do not get lost in the hustle and bustle of our daily lives. God puts certain people in our lives for just a moment so He can bless them through us. Be careful not to miss them!

Week 3 – Peace: Lessons From Our Dance with Irma


Last week, we scurried about making preparations for Hurricane Irma; the largest hurricane ever recorded in the Atlantic Basin. We prayed and watched and watched and prayed. Grocery store shelves were emptied of water as early as four days out and gas stations ran out of gas. People were buying up plywood and filling sandbags. The local meteorologists did their best to keep us informed and not cause a panic. The issue with this particular storm was that it kept hopping back and forth across the state so there was no feasible way to predict the path. As she made landfall in the Caribbean, then Cuba we watched as countless buildings and homes were blown (and washed) away. At this point the storm was a CAT 5 which is the highest rating a hurricane can get. The closer the storm came, the higher the anxiety was building in everyone in her path. Finally, we were given a time frame and a pretty accurate path and it was not good. Tampa was going to be hit directly with a Cat 3 or 4 hurricane for the first time since 1921. The worst part of the storm would come around 2am and there would be widespread power outages and damage. Many people fled the state and headed north by car and plane. For those of us who stayed, we boarded up and “hunkered down” as they like to say. We were glued to the television all day watching Irma make her way through the islands and Naples. Finally, the news we had been praying for; the storm would come to our area as a CAT 1 or 2 (60-90 mph winds). Sunday morning, we woke up with no power or water but we were spared! Praising the Lord, we all checked on friends and family and prepared to start the clean up from this storm.

Throughout the week, many thoughts came to mind about life and faith. We saw people fighting over water, plywood, food and even grocery carts! On the other hand, we saw neighbors helping neighbors board up their homes and people looking out for one another. So what lessons did we learn from this storm?

  1. God is in control. Yes, we say this frequently and in our hearts we know it but when it comes down to the final moments and you are petrified your roof will blow off or a tree will crush your family do you really believe it?
  2. People are inherently good. While stressful situations can bring our the worst in some people, most of us deep down are good people. We saw this with Houston after Harvey and we are seeing it here after Irma.
  3. Prayer works! There were millions of people praying for this city to be spared and we were. One of the local meteorologists said after the storm that this was completely God’s sovereignty and answered prayers.
  4. We are a privileged people. Put aside the excessive wealth and luxuries many of us have. I am referring to basic needs like running water, air conditioning, shelter and food. After going without some of those things for 24 hours I am SO grateful!
  5. Keeping our eyes on Him really makes a difference. Throughout my walk, anytime I have been stressed or anxious and I was in step with the Lord and His commands I was not scared. Lately, I have not been keeping up with quiet time and my prayer life is weak. I noticed a HUGE difference during this storm in my anxiety levels. I was genuinely afraid for my family’s safety. God tells us throughout scripture to not be afraid for He is with us. He is always with us but when we are in tune with Him and walking in faith His presence is much more apparent.

    Throughout this entire experience the same song has been playing in my mind;
    In the Eye of the Storm by Ryan Stevenson.

    In the eye of the storm
    You remain in control
    And in the middle of the war
    You guard my soul
    You alone are the anchor
    When my sails are torn
    Your love surrounds me 
    In the eye of the storm


Week 2 -Determination


This week started out wacky. My daughter has not been sleeping well and subsequently, neither have I. She has developed a habit where she only falls asleep when nursing; or should I say I allowed her to develop that habit. Our class meets on Monday night and I worked all afternoon Monday. I went straight to class after working and I was so tired from two nights of NO sleep I felt like I was in a complete fog! Hopefully, my class didn’t notice. We talked about going from Desperation to Determination. I was determined to work out this week so I made plans to go to run club with a friend on Wednesday! On the way to run club Wednesday night we were bombarded by the storm of the century. Ok, I may be exaggerating a bit but it was bad. There would be no running outdoors that night. Boo…
I thought, no problem I can run one morning this week! At the end of sleep deprived night #3, that ship sailed as well. I was still determined to make a change, so Thursday we went to the grocery store and with my list in hand I purchased the items to make several meals. This is different than most trips where I purchase random BOGO items that look good. I have successfully made dinner two nights in a row! Now I need to apply my determination to working out 3 days a week!

My One Thing

This morning as I was going over my Made to Crave homework, I was playing praise music and a Bethel song called “You Are My One Thing” came up in the play list. I have never heard this song, but it was certainly fitting for this study! As I was going over the questions, I was forced to consider what my “one thing” is that I am craving over God. My one thing may be different than your one thing. Is it food? alcohol? video games? sex? acceptance? power? material things? There are a host of alternative pleasures/desires to be sought in this world that can take the place of Jesus. We were created by God to crave Him and Him alone. maxresdefault